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Love Needs Action, Trust Needs Proof, and Sorry Needs Change

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Lucinda Westmoreland
August 19, 2024
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Love Needs Action, Trust Needs Proof, and Sorry Needs Change

In my own journey through relationships, I’ve learned that words alone aren’t enough. Love, trust, and apologies are powerful, but they need to be backed by real, meaningful actions.

Love Needs Action

I’ve come to understand that saying “I love you” is important, but it’s the actions that truly make love real. It’s in the small, everyday gestures—showing up, being present, and caring for your partner in ways that make them feel truly valued. Words are just the beginning; it’s what you do that shows your love.

Trust Needs Proof

Building trust takes time, and I’ve seen firsthand how essential it is to back up words with consistent actions. Trust isn’t something that’s simply given—it’s earned. Through honesty and reliability, I’ve worked to prove that I’m someone who can be counted on, not just in the big moments, but in the small, everyday ones too.

Sorry Needs Change

One of the hardest lessons I had to learn was that saying “sorry” wasn’t enough. In the past, I’ve had to really look at my actions and recognize that if I truly meant my apology, I needed to change my behavior. Words can heal, but they’re only effective when followed by real, lasting change. This was essential for me to grow and to repair the relationships that matter most to me.

I’ve learned that relationships thrive not just on words, but on the actions that back them up. If you want to build a strong, lasting connection, remember: Love with action, build trust with proof, and show your apology through change.

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